What's the first question you'd have if your doctor said you have breast cancer? "Am I going to lose my breast?"
What if you're a man and your doctor says you have breast cancer? "How can I have breast cancer? Men can't get that, can they?"
Cases of breast cancer are rarer in men than in women, and can easily be misdiagnosed as a benign lump during a mammography. And often it's caught in the later stages of the disease.
We all go through a period of denial as cancer patients when we first get the bad news, but men have a special way of deluding themselves about breast cancer, kind of like the ostrich. If we just ignore it, it'll go away.
Wake up, guys. It can happen to us.
This story by Liz Sims is a testament to one real man's strength in dealing with breast cancer and becoming a champion for awareness.
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By Liz Sims
Allen Wilson doesn’t mind being a poster child for a pink cause.
“Exploit me,” he said.
Wilson was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003 when he was 51. Now he’s using his experience to save other grandfathers, fathers, sons, brothers and uncles.
Wilson, of Houston, noticed a lump under his nipple, but he ignored it until the day he collided with one of his sons while playing basketball. He did some research and decided he needed to see his doctor.
“Two days later, I had a mammogram. It’s amazing what those technicians can do with so little tissue to work with,” he said.
Wilson had a mastectomy and chemotherapy. His hair was falling out, so his two sons helped give him a Mohawk and paint half red and half green for a family Christmas card.
Since then, Wilson, who is the 2011 chairman for the Houston Komen Race for the Cure®, has personally raised more than $68,000 for the foundation. A runner, a skydiver and a mountain climber, Wilson loves to leave pink ribbons on mountain summits – like Mount Kilimanjaro and Mount Everest.
“I have had two surgeries, two chemos and one radiation, and I am surviving just fine,” he said. Some of his treatments were rough, and the side effects weren’t fun. “But we got through it.”
Richard Roundtree, an actor best known as John Shaft in “Shaft,” was 51 when he was diagnosed with breast cancer after feeling a lump while in the shower in 1993.
Roundtree initially thought the doctor was questioning his manhood, but he has grown to be comfortable as a spokesman for the cause. A woman on an airplane once thanked him for saving her husband’s life by inspiring him to get checked out by a doctor.
Some argue the survival rate for men is not as good as it is for women because men tend to ignore symptoms for longer, but the American Cancer Society reports recent studies have shown some improvement. Men and women who are diagnosed at the same stages have similar outlooks.
This year, the ACS estimates 2,140 new cases of invasive breast cancer in men in this country. They estimate 450 men will die.
One in 1,000 men, compared to one in eight women, will face breast cancer at some point. The average age of diagnosis is 68. One of five of those diagnosed will have a close relative with the disease.
There is no known cause, but genetics, obesity and excessive alcohol consumption may contribute.
Men and women have similar treatments including surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation and targeted therapies.